Saturday, October 23, 2010

Why Start a Blog Now?

The infertility journey is a long and painful one.  We hope this blog will bring comfort to those who may be on a similar journey.   We also believe adoption is close to God's heart and hope to bring awareness to this global issue.  We love sweets and hope to share tasty recipes with you!

Infertility: Here's where we'll be chronicling our journey.  Here's the latest.  I (Rachel) have PCOS (info here).  What's that, you ask?  It basically means starting a family of our own will be difficult and requires doctor intervention.  However, we think God is bigger.  We're taking some time to try some less invasive treatments, like acupuncture.  We're prayerful that this will help!  Here's what God has to say about it: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6)  Much easier said than done, but we know God is all good, all the time.  

Adoption:  We just came back from the Together for Adoption conference (http://www.togetherforadoption.org/).  God placed adoption on our hearts even before I was diagnosed with PCOS.  We know we want to adopt and are praying for God's timing.  At this point, we've narrowed our search to a domestic infant adoption. 

Baking:  Today I'll be baking these gems.  Pictures soon to follow (recipe below)

Frosted Pumpkin Cookies

Ingredients

  • 1 cup shortening
  • 2 cups packed brown sugar
  • 1 can (15 ounces) solid-pack pumpkin
  • 4 cups all-purpose flour
  • 2 teaspoons baking powder
  • 2 teaspoons baking soda
  • 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
  • 1/8 teaspoon salt
  • 1 cup chopped pecans
  • 1 cup chopped dates

  • CARAMEL FROSTING:
  • 1/2 cup butter, cubed
  • 1-1/2 cups packed brown sugar
  • 1/4 cup milk
  • 1 teaspoon maple flavoring
  • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 2 to 2-1/2 cups confectioners' sugar

Directions

  • In a large bowl, cream shortening and brown sugar until light and fluffy. Beat in pumpkin. Combine the flour, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon and salt; gradually add to pumpkin mixture and mix well. Stir in pecans and dates.
  • Drop by rounded teaspoonfuls 2 in. apart onto ungreased baking sheets. Bake at 375° for 13-15 minutes or until firm.
  • Meanwhile, for frosting, combine the butter, brown sugar and milk in a small saucepan. Bring to a boil over medium heat, stirring constantly; boil for 3 minutes. Remove from the heat; stir in maple flavoring and vanilla.
  • Cool slightly; beat in enough confectioners' sugar to achieve spreading consistency. Remove cookies to wire racks; frost while warm. Yield: 6-1/2 dozen.
Tip of the Day:  Never ask your friends when they'll be starting a family of their own.  We know this question is never meant to be hurtful, but it can be very painful for someone experiencing infertility.

4 comments:

  1. i'm praying for your journey rachel. HE will be faithful! i went to that conference too-blown away!

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  2. Rachel, I am so glad that you have shared what you have been dealing with. I think that it is important to let people know things so they can share in that burden of prayer for you. I also wanted to let you know that (which you probably already know) that in the tx system if you adopt a child that is 2 yrs or older, you will not pay a thing, no lawyer fees at all. and of course these little tykes need homes too. there are other benefits that the state provides when you adopt an older child. we are going to adopt a child at some point in the future. being an adoptee myself, it is important to us to give another child the life that I was given. you will be a great mom, whether the baby grows under your heart, or in it....

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  3. Rachel and Harlan,

    I love what Marken said about where the baby grows, under your heart or in it. Very cool! You two have such big loving hearts there is room for lots of babies!
    The blog is a great idea especially since we get recipes! It is also helpful for those who need to appreciate the journey that many are on as they prepare for parenthood and experience infertility. I am encouraged for the little (and big) miracles ahead for you two sweethearts. We pray for you all each day and are honored to be included in the family and friends who will travel this path and share in the joy of the miracles as they come. Keep those recipes coming!

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  4. Rachel, I was delighted to see your blog! I think it's wonderful and many people will get to share in your journey - both the highs and lows. We love you!

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